Women's demands

Women's demands does not know borders.

If you wish to marry the girl asked the man what she wants, for the most part of what it describes will be requirements. Because the answers often begin with the words "a man should ...."

requirement - the action, expressed in persistent, categorically, the request to execute anything.

Demanding - persistent and emphatic wish that was the way I want. Sometimes it is an internal voltage, which is not always clearly expressed in external actions.

The reproaches happen where what I demand is not fulfilled.

If the future bride does not see a man matching his requirements, it is the relationship is likely to break. Or another option - will develop their neurosis, expecting or demanding what she wants.

We married about the same. Once the voltage increases, because it is not regularly get what requires.

Meaning one - woman thinking something like this:

"If it is it - the I will be happy to."

It turns out that it requires, it is the key to women's happiness.

Or rather, if my demands will be fulfilled, then I'll be happy.

  • If he has an apartment, car and a decent salary - then I will be happy.
  • If the husband will spend the weekend with me and not with friends - I'll be happy.
  • If my man will not drink - I'll be happy.
  • If the husband will give me flowers, I'll be happy.

And now for a moment to stop and think - what I want:

A) Can I really give it?

B) What do I do or not do to get what you want?

B) whether it is included in the zone of interest in men?

D) How do I need this and not something else?

D) Can I get it without a man?

E) If I still is not received, whether to me the meaning of our relationship?

E) What's more important to me - a man and our relationship or what I want?

These issues are to ensure that your demands gained boundaries and awareness. Very often our neurotic demands - we are your own head and share, set up castles in the air, and we want it for all the other people in charge. It is illogical and unfair work.

If you are honest to each of its request to answer these questions, you will understand more about their desires and possibilities for their preparation.

I suggest to understand example, might look like the answers to the questions.

Example.

I want my husband gave me flowers 1 per month for a reason.

A) Can I really give it?

Yes, he had gave me flowers. However, on the way to work it does not have a flower shop and he comes back tired.

B) What am I doing or not doing to expedite the receipt of the desired? I said a couple of times and am waiting to see what he remembers about it, and get angry when you do not get the flowers. At the same time I can a little more to talk about it without finding fault, and saying, I will be pleased. And express delight when he would give them to me.

B) whether it is included in the zone of interest in men?

Theoretically, yes - because if I'm happy, I want to do something nice to him, thus increasing positive in the relationship.

D) How do I need this and not something else?

I want flowers or flower in a pot, in any case, it flowers.

D) Can I get it without a man?

Yes Easy! I go and buy myself flowers, and will rejoice.

E) If I still is not received, whether to me the meaning of our relationship?

Sure! The path does not bestow - the main thing that was healthy.

E) What's more important to me - a man and our relationship or what I want?

Of course, man. The lack of colors this is not the worst thing that can happen.

Conclusion: try a little more to talk about it, but when I get flowers - will rejoice, and he will be more pleasant. If that does not work, I'll buy myself. Although I do not like these colors, because it is not important.

As you can see, if you look more closely at the existing problems, we can see many interesting things.