Love and psevdolyubov
From the early years, the society shows us that one of the main stages in the life of man, is the stage of the search for partner and family. Of course, this is a very important moment in our lives, which allows to feel loved and loving, find yourself something new in human relationships, find new ideas and goals in life, in the end, makes it possible to learn to live for others, to give the love and care for his family.
True love - is a wonderful feeling when the person experiencing it, least of all attached importance to any mental or physical characteristics of a loved one. For him, the important thing is that the object of his love is for him in his individual uniqueness, and he can not be replaced by anyone. True love is a spiritual connection between people, it is not restricted to physical sexuality. Love is an art - who need to learn continuously to improve it. It does not involve any calculation or domination of one partner over the other. Love - is equality, is the ability to give their power and energy to another person.
Considering the theme of love, we can not ignore the phenomenon psevdolyubov when a person is not able to love truly, and seeking selfish intent in a relationship, or not wanting to give anything, requires something in return. Psevdolyubvi example of a primitive sexual desire, when about any higher feelings we can not speak. The relationship started with the satisfaction of libido energy, almost never lasting. In addition to the sexual instinct, and, perhaps, and in combination with it, one of the factors that motivates people to establish relationships that are not accompanied by a sense of true love, there is a reluctance to look flawed individual in the eyes of others. So, a man looking at his friends with a partner, may feel inferior in their background. Here triggered principle "with anyone better than one." The so-called "love" this man is not nothing but a sham and theatrical play, which manifests itself in a superficial, manipulative courtship ritual, where there is no place, no deep feeling. This person primarily engaged in itself, rather than a manifestation of love for another person. It is also necessary to understand that this type of courtship may be typical for people experiencing fear of loneliness.
It is hoped that of the not very good view of some of the features of human relations, help you, dear reader, think about certain things relating to the issue of morality, and make the appropriate conclusions. And, most importantly, remember that true love exists!