Who wants to see a man in his beloved?
A woman does not necessarily possess a rare beauty and outstanding intellect to fall in love with and bind to a man. Let us take a few examples from history to support this.
For example, Maria Benkendorf. This seemingly unremarkable woman turned heads of many eminent men, among whom were M. Gorky and HG Wells. The lack of beauty does not stop her many times to marry. But Wells was so in love with her, that even left her a decent inheritance. And remember Dali muse named Gala. This ugly woman, left her husband for the sake of Salvador Dali, for many years inspired genius to create immortal masterpieces.
What is so special about these women? Than they have won the love of the unusual and talented men? The answer is simple: they found a man strong female sexual energy, much more attractive than beauty. To date, some men tend to inspire a woman that she plays a secondary role, and from it there is little independent. Not feeling her femininity, necessity and importance for a loved one, a woman rebels against him. Ganged up on a loved one, it ceases to help him advance in life, does not develop along with it. Instead, she begins to nag him constantly demand something and showing their discontent, blaming a man for all the failures. Being in this state, a woman is not able to give a loved one the energy that is needed to accomplish that. The man did not draw strength and inspiration from her, so start looking for another woman who can give it to him. The unwritten law says that we get out of life exactly as much as we give. What we can tell psychology of relationships? What kind of woman a man sees his chosen? It must be harmoniously combined its four roles: mistress, hostess, Queen and girls. Our typical female mistake is that we choose for themselves one or two roles, forgetting about the others.
Most women become wives, limit themselves to the role of a good housewife, no longer burn stormy passion, as befits the mistress, or look at him with admiration, as it would make the girl. A man that is not enough, he does not receive the necessary emotion to it, and that's starting to think about how to look for them at the other woman.
What are the qualities of each of the woman's role? They give the man? Let's try to figure it out.
The role of the mistress provides that a woman should show such qualities as practicality and peace of mind, the ability to care for a loved one. In fact, it is the satisfaction of physical needs of her husband: tasty feed, to create a cozy and homely atmosphere to the man was comfortable and happy, so that he felt the care of themselves. The response of men should express respect and gratitude to his wife.
The role of the Queen means that a woman should behave like a man who knows her worth beautiful, has a good intellect. This means that it is necessary to demonstrate to the man qualities such as self-confidence, discretion, inaccessibility. The Queen meets the intellectual needs of men. She gives her chosen an interesting dialogue, can advise something sensible, share useful information for him, as well as friendship and the desire to win her favor. Response of men is not quenched her interest, admiration and respect, as well as gifts.
The role of the girl provides moodiness, helplessness and admiration for her man, who should be in relation to him a woman. This gives her emotional power over the favorite. Girl gives loved their attention, admiration for his virtues, shows the trust and respect. In response, the man gives her his love and kindness, willingness to protect his girl, to please her in a variety of gifts.
The role of the mistress of means that the woman will be required to demonstrate their beloved passion, passionate temperament, shamelessness, sincerity, sensuality and ingenuity in the intimate sphere. It gives a man the sexual pleasure and confidence that he is the best. From the beloved gets pleasure, affection and loyalty.
The most important role in couple relationships, where women in any case can not be ignored, is the role of mistress, the most attractive to men. It attracts and fascinates the sexual energy, which exudes a woman. It is much more important than the business or the ability to support intelligent conversation.
Combines all four states, work on it, to evolve, becoming more desirable and interesting for her man - and woman's happiness to be long in coming!