The impulse to work with the unconscious - is the desire to see the source of their suffering
The impulse to work with the unconscious - is the desire to see the source of their suffering, dissatisfaction, frozen life development; the desire to feel brighter and the world around them, get closer his own "I". And to understand that a lot depends on ourselves, on our way of feeling and thinking ...
But if we can fully "work out" their unconscious and free of his power? No, this is not possible, and most importantly - there is no need. What is important is to make his story good enough for myself. And along the way to find out your "I" own inner world, to enter into contact with him, learn to enjoy this inner work, the development and opening itself. In this case, it is not necessary to examine all until the end. We can not thoroughly revise misunderstood, missed, frightening or painful. We can not fully review the story of her life and start from scratch. The main thing is that we have the strength to go safely through life, set new goals, to take a new burden of responsibility, not afraid of challenges, achievements, conflicts ... Only rethinking and reworking everything that happens to us, puts pressure on us, we become stronger - deeper, thinner and sharper understand our "I", the inner and outer reality. And we find harmony with your subconscious, conscious of his infinity and knowing that at any moment of it may be something that we did not even know and what, of course, completely unprepared.
Unconscious - a bottomless ocean. And we can well swim in its waters if to convince himself that we are in the pool, no waves, no marine life is not there, the depth is predictable, and the water is chlorinated ... And so can continue for a very long time, especially if we have defense mechanisms work well. But once frightened "monster" who appeared from the depths, we are no longer in the water will not go. Or have to spend a lot of time trying to still plunge - approached, touched, ran away ... That's working with the resistance in psychoanalysis: the patient something like a little thought and then "ran away", "closed" . So it makes sense to do, and fears, and defenses: respect them, do not force yourself to the fact that while it is impossible, to understand that what we offer is really unbearable ... To ignore the fact that scares we have set ourselves a blank wall, on which we can watch for hours and ... I do not see anything. But at some point, psychoanalytic work are beginning to realize that in fact the wall - just a way to ignore the fact that for her. And then there are the door in the wall outlines ... While it is closed. In the next step we have decided to lift the door. And then we are shutting it because there "emerges" a monster ... Going to the inner truth - a long process, a colossal internal work. Therefore, analysts are patiently waiting when the patient is able to see a different reality. We never know when it will happen, when will come the ability to "float" over the abyss, knowing that in the depths of her hiding monsters, and undeterred by his own fear. "