From conversations with them or regret about the past
The first five or six years and you were not thinking about it, wanted to be, just to be - because you gave begins with the mother and gradually expand the world, and in spite of it, when he was unkind. Be - to stay in the present and its reflection in you. Future in your embers was not there, and you did not look into it - it occurs by itself and called "today." Then it began to sprout from the "tomorrow," and you became primerivat to the future in a dream someone to be when you grow up. It was only a dream - is not the desire, and a nasty mess is not getting tastier by the fact that it will help you become a soldier. Then you led an overwhelming desire to be free from the power of adults to become an adult. And you became one. And he jumped out of his pants, and climbed out of his way to seek, seek, seek ...
And so the time zhivesh, almost without looking, eagerly pulling telescopic antenku neck Baska with a knob on it to look vpered. You all desire, and the sea exist yet on the knee. Then you start to see that you can not all, is not omnipotent, achieved something, but the world does not lie at your feet - and in general, all the hell is this? You are over 40 - and what ?!
Often begin to look back ... Of course, in the past a lot of good. Remember, and after Galina Gamper sigh: "How desperately I was young, as a divinely stupid." And Vse exist yet was to come - a stormy spring to autumn with ee podschetami chicken was so far away. And now - that they consider. Keep an eye, peering ... and see how many can fight fool (himself), stocks ran, I wanted the best, but it turned out - would not be looking eye. And All you did it yourself. Sam made himself! Already done, napahal, nakolbasil! I spat in someone - spit will not come back, and come back and - so is not yours. You can, of course, tear his hair and dirt ee ashes to new otraschivaniya to provide scope of work on the pull-out under its own lament: "We had to ..." you can ask for forgiveness, otmalivat, atone, to receive absolution ... It is possible that often and it happens to develop the role of the victim, in which the actions were previously blame mom, dad, teacher, government, evil eye ... before the Soviet power, and now the money. Well, not without their participation - sometimes fatal, but always doing himself. And none of you have not done before and no one comes instead you now.
Iterate lived day after day - life is not enough. All pereberesh not, and whether it is necessary? But if you begin to catch myself thinking, "I should have ..." Look at yourself then and today. Why, why did you have to then do exactly as you did? Why do you now want to change it? What you give is what you would like to change in the past, how it is connected with what's important to you today? It was not easy though, by driftwood and ravines, through fire, water and copper pipes, but your path leading to what is dear to you? Or is it a bug? If so, instead of "What have I done?" Ask yourself, "How do I do that?" And look on the result to the top, link by link, until naydesh where "meant well" turned to "as usual" and that exactly did you do to so turned. Naydesh - likely will not repeat: on the rake again and again comes someone who does not understand how he does it. Because it is not itself a mistake - a mistake, but a mistake - do not take her lesson. She remedied - take. And then you start to turn out less often head back and crunch the neck, peering vpered, stop drowning in the past and head in the fantasies of the future, All increasingly discovering himself present and live in it. Live today, not today, of which deeply do not care about what was going to be. Live not invent, but living life growing from the lived, experienced, felt and conscious yesterday and tomorrow in the open - such as it is, not subordinate to the desires of your left foot. Pygmalion, every day established ourselves today of myself yesterday, you even at the last exhalation can not wipe his forehead and say, "That's it! Done! "So whether or not and to try? But it decide yourself.